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A few summers ago, a public school custodian told me he started taking the American flag down from the cafeteria each afternoon. He was tired of the emails. One day it was a parent who felt the flag made immigrant students uneasy. The next it was a veteran wondering why a school in the United States didn’t hang the flag in a place of honor at all times. The custodian said something that stuck with me: it felt easier to remove the flag than defend it. That isn’t a story a

On my block, there is a quiet choreography that plays out whenever a neighbor moves in. Someone puts out a small garden flag, another raises a team pennant on game day, and one house down the street rotates seasonal banners: a shamrock in March, a Pride flag in June, a set of tiny triangular prayer flags that last through the summer. Most of the time, nobody comments. But now and then, the air goes tense. A U.S. Flag gets taken down after a curt note about “politics.” A rai

A few summers ago, a public school custodian told me he started taking the American flag down from the cafeteria each afternoon. He was tired of the emails. One day it was a parent who felt the flag made immigrant students uneasy. The next it was a veteran wondering why a school in the United States didn’t hang the flag in a place of honor at all times. The custodian said something that stuck with me: it felt easier to remove the flag than defend it. That isn’t a st

A flag has more weight than its fabric. Ask anyone who has stood graveside while a uniformed team folds the colors into a tight triangle and places it into a widow’s hands. The cloth seems heavier than it should be, as if each fold gathers voices. I have felt that weight, once at a small-town cemetery where the breeze carried the sound of taps across the rows, and again on a blustery ridge where a wooden marker leaned toward a horizon striped by winter fields. Those moments